Ketahanan Keluarga dan Kontribusinya Bagi Penanggulangan Faktor Terjadinya Perceraian

Rizqi Maulida Amalia, Muhammad Yudi Ali Akbar, Syariful Syariful

Abstract


Abstrak - Faktor ketidak harmonisan di dalam keluarga menjadi salah satu sebab terjadinya perceraian keluarga. Ketidak harmonisan keluarga ini disebabkan oleh adanya pergeseran nilai perkawinan. Pasangan suami istri kurang memahami esensi tujuan pernikahan dan berkeluarga yang menjadi salah satu nilai dalam ketahanan keluarga. Hal itu menyebabkan adanya ketidakcocokan, perselisihan, akhlak yang buruk, cemburu dan gangguan fihak luar serta adanya faktor ekonomi. Penelitian ini menggunakan metode kualitatif. Penelitian ini juga menggunakan data sekunder berupa data dari Pengadilan Agama Jakarta Selatan. Hasil kajian nya ialah (1). Diperlukan pemahaman kepada masyarakat tentang ketahanan keluarga agar setiap individu pasangan memahami konsep dan tujuan berumah tangga. (2). Optimalisasi lembaga BP4 dalam menjembatani penyelesaian konflik rumah tangga. (3).     Penguatan sendi keluarga dari berbagai aspek baik ekonomi maupun sosial dan lainnya agar dapat meminimalisir tingkat perceraian.

 

Kata Kunci – Ketahanan keluarga, faktor cerai, pernikahan

 

Abstract - Factors of disharmony in the family became one of the causes of family divorce. This family harmony is caused by a shift in marital values. Married couples lack understanding of the essence of the purpose of marriage and family which became one of the values in family resilience. It causes discrepancies, disputes, bad morals, jealousy and external interference and economic factors. This research used qualitative method. This research also used secondary data in the form of data from South Jakarta Religious Court. The results of study are (1). understanding of family resilience is needed so that each individual couple understand the concept and purpose of marriage, (2). Optimization of BP4 institutions in mediator the settlement of domestic conflict. (3). Strengthening family bond in every aspect (economy, social, etc) to decrease the divorce rate. 

 

Keywords - Family resilience, divorce facto, marriage


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DOI: http://dx.doi.org/10.36722/sh.v4i2.268

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